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Your Friends and Your Wealth - By PT Cheng
Do you know that your wealth is determined by the types of friends you spend most
of your time with?
This question raised some doubts in me when I first heard this statement but
it turned out to be one of the most powerful statements I`ve ever known.
If this question also raises some doubts in you, please read on
Many years ago, I went to a seminar on wealth creation and one of the speakers
asked the audience to do this:
"On a piece of paper, please write down the names of six people you spend your
time most. And write down their respective monthly income."
The speaker continued, "Then sum up the income six of your closest friends make."
"Lastly, calculate the average of the salary among your six friends by dividing
the total salary by six. The average salary is a reflection of how much you make."
The speaker explained.
The audience was intrigued. So did I. How could a simple game like this lead
to how much you make?
It`s even surprising to find out that how much you make is determined by how
much your friends make.
After the game, I came to realize that the essence of the game is the power of
association. And the importance of what types of friends you associate with most
of your time.
You`ll become who your friends are.
There is also a Chinese proverb says that if you mix with red ink, you`ll become
red; if you mix with black ink, you`ll become dark.
This proverb teaches us the importance of choosing friends. The influence of
friends is so great that it can shape your destiny.
Having mentioned the game in the seminar and the Chinese proverb, I have no intention
whatsoever to tell you to choose friends based on their paychecks.
What I wanted to say is, if you want to achieve success in life and business,
you must carefully choose with whom you want to spend most of your time.
If you surround yourself with friends in business, you talk about business. If
your friends are employees, you talk about work. If your friends are in real estate,
you talk about real estate and so on.
Don`t believe what I said?
When you hang out with your friends next time, take note of the topics that govern
your conversation between you and your friends and you`ll understand what I mean.
If you want to soar, associate yourself with eagles and become one of them. It`s
impossible for you to soar if you only associate with chicken. Be an eagle and soar
to greater heights.
PT Cheng is a business owner. He
believes that everybody has the potential to be rich and eventually financially
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They?re on The Ball - By Leah Lauber
Do you have what it takes to be a world-class athlete? Do you know what
it takes? Well, if you don`t know, keep reading!
I attended the U.S. Women`s National Soccer Team training session at the Seminole
Sports Training Center near Orlando recently while the team was preparing for the
Women`s World Cup, which began Saturday and runs through July 10.
The United States Women`s National Team is a great team. In 1998, their record
was 22-1-2, losing only to Norway. The U.S. team won the Women`s World Cup in `91,
came in third in `95, and won the `96 gold medal in the first-ever Olympic soccer
competition for women.
When we arrived at the field, the team was already warming up and stretching.
They were working on individual skills like juggling, volleys, and heading. Then
they played small-sided games like 4 vs. 2, playing to maintain possession of the
ball. The purpose was to transition to defense as fast as possible once a player
lost the ball.
Next, they worked on the fine art of "finishing," or scoring goals. They worked
on several ways to attack the goal from different angles.
What impressed me most was that the best women`s team in the world was practicing
so hard! After practice I spoke to a few of the players.
"We know every other team is playing their best when they face us, so we have
to be as good as we can be," said defender Brandi Chastain.
Goalie Briana Scurry added, "You have to work hard to stay the best."
"In order to achieve your goals and get where you want to be, you have to continue
to practice," said forward Danielle Fotopoulos. "I always practice year-round with
a club team or doing whatever I can to improve myself."
When the players were younger, they sometimes had to miss parties, dances, and
sleepovers, just so they could play soccer. Most of us would consider those sacrifices,
but they don`t, they chose to play for their love of the game.
The rewards are great for these world class athletes: traveling around the world
as a team, getting paid to play and competing in the Olympics.
"That was a dream come true for me," Scurry said about winning the gold medal
in the 1996 Olympics.
"I had been dreaming about being in the Olympics since I was really young, so
it was an incredible feeling for me. My family was there, my friends were there,
we won it at home (in Atlanta), so it was just the most unbelievable experience."
What?s the best thing about being on the National Team? "I get to play the sport
that I love everyday with my best friends," Chastain said.
"The relationships and friendships, we`re just a big family here," said Scurry,
"I can count on the team for anything."
Though they do take their sport seriously, It`s not just work, work, work all
the time for this team. During a water break, team members were laughing, joking
and throwing water on each other. When the coaches called them to resume, it was
instantly back to work. When practice finished, the players still had to attend
a team meeting and work out with weights.
"We try to work hard some days and other days it`s easy. It`s not hard work every
single day. It`s a high level of concentration every day, but not physically hard,
because we`d just wear the team out,? Coach Tony DiCicco said later. ?It wouldn`t
be fun to play and it`s gotta be fun to play."
Of course, the fun part of soccer is playing the game, executing what you`ve
practiced and defeating your opponents.
The next day the team took on Brazil in an exhibition game.
I had passes that allowed me to be on the field during the game to shoot photos
and to interview the players after the game (The other photographers there looked
at me as if I was just tagging along with my dad, but really, my dad was tagging
along with me!
At that time, Mia Hamm had already tied the record for most international career
goals at 107. The players, the media, and more than 10,000 fans were expecting her
to break the record that night. She had an opportunity to do so early in the game,
but the goalie saved it. Right at the end of the first half, Mia shot and scored
the record breaking goal. I was standing 15 feet away from her! AWESOME!!! After
the referee blew the whistle for halftime, Mia was interviewed by ESPN. As she was
going into the locker room, I stuck my hand out and she slapped me a high-five!
During the second half, the U.S. scored two more goals. The last goal was a set
play exactly the way they practiced the day before: one player crossed it from the
left side over the goalie to another teammate who headed it back to the middle,
where Tiffeny Milbrett converted the easy shot from five yards out. That`s what
practicing is all about!
After the 3-0 win over Brazil, I was with a pack of reporters and used my tape
recorder to capture Mia Hamm`s comments about her record-setting 108th goal.
"It was a great ball coming from Cindy Parlow`s one- touch pass. She touched
it outside because I was running forward. I didn`t touch it very well, and I thought
I was leaning back, but I guess I hit it right through her legs, so I was lucky
this one got through," she said.
"It means a lot to me right now, but it will probably mean even more once I stop
playing and look back on my career. I just love the fact that I could be here and
share it with my teammates - they`re a big part of all these goals,? Hamm said.
?The fact that they all ran out on the field was awesome. They were telling me how
proud they were of me."
She signed my Mia Hamm jersey, as well as my copy of her book, Go for the Goal.
I also had a binder signed by most of the other players.
Coach Tony DiCicco was sitting on the stairs eating pizza so, between slices,
I asked him to sign the binder too. I laughed when his assistant said, "Here`s the
head coach of the best women`s team in the world, eating pizza on some stairs."
After he finished his late dinner, the coach talked about what makes a national
team. "I look for players with character, players that I can trust when we`re not
together as a team, they`re going to work hard even by themselves," he said. "I
also look for players that have a special quality. Maybe they`re fast, maybe they`re
leaders, maybe great headers on the ball, but they have to have a special quality.
When you get all those qualities together, you can kind of piece the puzzle together."
So now you know what it takes to be a world class athlete. If you want to become
one, get to work!
The following excerpt comes from
"Soccer Dreams," which describes Leah Lauber?s true adventure following the U.S.
Women?s National Soccer Team, as a fan and 12-year-old Junior Reporter during the
history-making 1999 Women?s World Cup.
WWCSoccerDreams@aol.com
http://www.SoccerDreamsBook.com
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