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Is Life Real? Life Is the Experience You Give It - By Miami Phillips
How many times and how many ways can it be said that you have complete control over
your life; in any area of your life? This was recently brought home to me in a very
powerful way.
I was sitting at my computer writing this article. My computer clock read 6:00am,
but it was light yesterday at this time. How many millions or even billions of people
changed their reality on Sunday by simply believing time had actually changed?!
Incredible. If we can change time, why can we not change anything else we want?
We can. I tell you again.
* Nothing is real.
* Life has the meaning I give it.
* I am who I say I am and my experience is what I say it is.
Think of your life as an incredible video game that you are playing. Start by
concentrating on keeping your character healthy to get the most from the game. That
means doing the things within the game to get health points - like exercise. In
this game there is also points awarded for gathering rest! Of course there are points
given for love as well. And one sure thing about video games is you can always play
again no matter what happens!
If we look at people who play video games, some like the game and have fun, some
do not like the game and refuse to play. Some come back another time in a different
frame of mind and find the game seems different and like it then. Do you see that
the game never changes and it is the perception of the person playing the game that
makes it seem different?
Haven`t we all heard the phrase ?Perception is 99% of reality?? So change your
perception - change your reality. By doing so you can change reality by changing
perception, then reality is not real; it is actually only what you make of it! Make
reality whatever you want. Will it be easy? No. Is it doable? Yes. Your choice!
Simply make it a conscious choice.
Miami Phillips is an ANSIR Certified
Personal Coach and the founder of Creative MasterMinds. Miami believes personal
growth is an essential ingredient to being happy and contributing to this world.
Through his coaching, ebooks and teleclasses he provides a path for motivated people
to find passion and balance in their lives by understanding their life purpose and
the power of personal growth.
laying Baby Computer Games ? The New Parent-Child Tradition? - By Emma Rath
Imagine cuddling up with your small child to look at a picture book together
that is interactive, musical, responsive and talks to you?
This is the experience that people are having who are engaged in that relatively
new pastime ? playing computer games with babies.
JumpStart?s Knowledge Adventure calls it ?lapware?, Kiddies Games? logo is ?Hop
on the lap and tap?, and Sesame Street?s ?Baby and Me? opens with an animation of
a baby monster hopping onto the lap of a Daddy monster to play the computer. Playing
computer games with your baby is being promoted as a fun activity that a child and
their caregiver can share together. And rightly so, because whatever the activity,
physical, loving closeness is an important ingredient that infants need for healthy
intellectual, emotional and physical development.
Reading a bedtime story to a small eager child is a tradition in many homes.
As the children get older, this may be replaced by watching TV together. Our parents?
families listened to the radio together. Playing on the computer with a small child
may become a new type of family tradition. Home computers and internet are making
their way into more and more homes. Some parents use the computer in their work
and are delighted to share the computer for a fun activity with their kids. Other
parents want to make sure their children become computer literate. Well-designed,
interactive, educational computer games engage small children as much as the television
and are more educational than TV because they incite the child to interact and think,
rather than passively watch and listen. These are the reasons for the increasing
popularity of toddler computer software. Although a relatively small industry, software
for infants has been cited as being a very fast growing industry.
What type of computer software is available for babies, toddlers and preschoolers?
There are free games on websites and there are download and CDROM software that
you can buy. Most software for this age group is games, but computer story books
also exist. Wonderful websites that offer free games of which many are suitable
for preschoolers (preschoolers are able to do directed clicking with the mouse)
are:
http://www.sesamestreet.org/sesamestreet
http://www.noggin.com
http://www.cbc.ca/kidscbc
http://www.abc.net.au/children/games
http://www.meddybemps.com
Great free sites for babies (whose skills tend to be more limited to banging
the keyboard) are:
http://www.kiddiesgames.com
http://www.toddletoons.com
CDROM or download software that you buy is usually better than free internet
games. The games are usually superior (more graphics, more music, more involved
games for older kids) and the software takes over the entire screen, which is more
appropriate for very young children who click anywhere and everywhere on the screen.
Some of the well-known producers are:
Reader Rabbit software from http://www.learningcompany.com
JumpStart software from http://www.knowledgeadventure.com
Fisher-Price software from http://www.knowledgeadventure.com
Sesame Street software from http://www.encoresoftware.com or http://www.amazon.com
http://www.babywow.com
Computer game softwares for this age group make conscientious efforts to be suitably
educational. To judge their effectiveness for your child, try them out with your
child. If your child finds that it?s fun, then it?s probably educational. For a
baby, fun usually means that the game responds in some way to random keyboard presses
and mouse clicks, and that the game continues in a positive way even when no input
is forthcoming from the baby. A preschooler will need more of a challenge or more
educational content, but the game should be designed to be always fun, reactive
in a positive way and self-resolving when the child does not get the correct answer.
At this age, it is more important that computer games contribute positively to self-esteem,
rather than conscientiously correcting incorrect answers about educational concepts
that the child will master when they?re older anyway. The KiddiesGames.com software
is meticulous about adhering to these rules.
What types of skills are learned by playing toddler computer games? Obviously,
computer software is not suitable for practicing gross motor or even fine motor
skills. However, there are many types of educational concepts that computer games
can help a child master, including shapes, sounds, cause and effect, identifying
and naming things (such as objects and colors), increasing vocabulary, language
concepts, the forms of letters and numbers, counting, pattern recognition, detail
observation and word construction. At KiddiesGames, we strive to offer games for
small children that are out of the ordinary, such as foreign language exposure and
practicing the positions on the telephone for dialing emergency. The reactiveness
and interactiveness of computer software is, of course, superior to that of books,
and can be superior to that of toys, especially in the area of language. Infant
computer games are also being cited as excellent resources for children with special
education needs, because such games are simple , happy, brightly-colored, patient,
controlled by the child and allow the child to make things happen.
An official recommendation from the American Academy of Pediatrics at http://aappolicy.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/pediatrics%3B107/2/423
is to ?Discourage television viewing for children younger than 2 years, and encourage
more interactive activities that will promote proper brain development, such as
talking, playing, singing, and reading together.? This has been taken as advice
to avoid exposing those young children to the computer. However, well-designed infant
software actually encourages those great activities of ?talking, playing, singing,
and reading together?. By carrying out the play activities proposed by the computer
game, the caregiver is actually prompted with a framework or script for carrying
out those ?talking, playing, singing, and reading? activities with the child. Experts
are now saying that while computer games for infants should not replace toys and
blocks and books and should not be used as an electronic babysitter, that they are
yet another valid toy resource. For example, a summer 2004 newsletter from the Hawaii
State Health Department at http://www.hawaii.gov/health/family-child-health/eis/summer2004
encourages playing with lapware. The emphasis is not on acquiring measurable skills
or getting correct answers, but is on open-ended exploration on the part of the
child ? which is another way of saying ?having fun?. Children are programmed to
learn and practice what they learned by playing and having fun.
Playing computer games with your small child is not yet a family tradition. However,
it is an enjoyable, sharing activity that is becoming more and more popular.
The author of this article, Emma
Rath, produces free online and purchasable download baby and preschooler software,
available at http://www.kiddiesgames.com.
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